Month: December 2013

Merry Christmas from the Kim Family

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Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year from the Kim family to yours.

Karis is 18 and getting ready for college! It’s hard to believe Helen and I are going to be parents to a college student. Where did all the years go? The highlight of Karis’ year was going on her first summer mission trip out of the country when she went to Guatemala.

Kaitlin is 15 and a sophomore at Lakes High School. She’s on the dance team and loving it. She’s quite a musician – loves playing the piano and made the top choir for the award winning Lakes High School choir.

Kailey is 13 and an 8th grader at Hutdloff Middle School. Kailey loves sports – runs cross country, currently on the basketball team at school, and will run track in the spring. She too loves music and is in the school choir.

Kaleb is 8. The little man loves all things boy – sports, video games, legos, etc. Most of all he loves playing trumpet. He’s turning out to be quite a musician.

Helen and I love living in Lakewood and close to church. We love being a part of the community here in Lakewood.

God has been good to us this year.

It has been an amazing year and we look forward to what God has in store for 2014.

Although we don’t get to see some of you very much know that your friendship is very dear to us.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and your family!

James, Helen, Karis, Kaitlin, Kailey, and Kaleb.


Evangelism Works Best in the Context Where It’s an Answer to a Question

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“Evangelism works best in the context where it’s an answer to a question” – Graham Tomlin.

Richard Froth, a seminary president, shares the following story in JR Woodward’s book, “Creating a Missional Culture”:

When he was in Romania he sat down with some members of a church who told him about a young Protestant who went up to Moldova to begin a church. The people – the city fathers, the elders, the ruling people – didn’t want him in town. They said if you come to this town and build anything, a church or anything, we will tear it down.

The young man felt God calling him to begin a work, and he went to Moldova and started by building a house for his family. He built the house, and he and his family moved in. The next morning, early in the morning they heard a knock. They went to the gate, opened it up and there stood eight men. They said, “We are here to tear down your house.” The young pastor stepped back and said, “Do what you need to do.”

The men proceeded to climb on the roof and they started tearing the roof off, one piece at a time. They worked all morning. About 11:30 the pastor said to his wife, “Honey, we need to fix some lunch.” The wife agreed. “You probably should fix it for, oh, twelve people.” She said, “What?” He said, “Yes, twelve people.” “What for?” she asked. “Well, for the people up on the roof.” She said, “What? They’re our enemies. They hate us. They’re tearing down our house.” He said, “But Jesus said we are to love our enemies and to do good to those who hate us. They have been working hard. I’m sure they are hungry.”

So she made them lunch, and the pastor invited them into the house. The weary men came down from the roof, entered the house and started to eat. They said, “Why are you doing this?” He said, “Because we are followers of Jesus. Jesus said to love your enemies; you’re our enemies, at least you feel like you are. We don’t know why you’re doing this, but you think you’re doing something that is good and right. We don’t understand that, but we love you anyway and we forgive you for doing this.”

After lunch they thanked the woman for the food, climbed back on the roof and started putting the roof back on, one piece at a time. And when the young pastor and his wife opened a church in that village, those eight men were the first eight converts.

Evangelism is most effective when it’s an answer to the question to which Jesus is the only right answer:

  • Why do you love us?
  • Why do you suffer with us?
  • Why do you serve?
  • Why do you care?

Gifts – “To” – “Because”

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Christmas is the season of giving and receiving gifts.

As we’re giving and receiving gifts this year, what would happen to our relationships if instead of writing “To” and “From”, we instead wrote “To” and “Because”?

  • To my wife…because you are so dear to me.
  • To my daughter…because you are a precious gift.
  • To my son…because I am so proud of you.
  • To dad…because you are my hero.
  • To mom…because your love is unconditional.

It just might make the tradition of giving and receiving gifts a little more meaningful.


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“I have things I’d like to say today. First, while you were sleeping last night, 30,000 kids died of starvation or diseases related to malnutrition. Second, most of you don’t give a sh-t. What’s worse is that you’re more upset with the fact that I said ‘sh-t’ than the fact that 30,000 kids died last night.”

– Tony Campolo

Good Church

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Ultimately, churches are evaluated by only one thing – its disciples. It does not matter how good your praise, preaching, programs or properties are. If your disciples are passive, needy, consumeristic, and not moving in the direction of radical obedience, your church is not good.

– Neil Cole

The Truth Will Make Me Free from Mr Rogers

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What if I were very, very sad

And all I did was smile?

I wonder after awhile

What might become of my sadness?


What if I were very, very angry

And all I did was sit

And never think about it?

What might become of my anger?


Where would they go,

And what would they do,

If I couldn’t let them out?

Maybe I’d fall, maybe get sick

Or doubt.


But what if I could know the truth

And say just how I feel?

I think I’d learn a lot that’s real

About freedom.


Thank you Mr. Rogers. I needed this today.